One of the biggest problems you will encounter when encountering people and their problems is that most people don’t consider their problems things that are not a part of them. They consider and identify with their problems in a way that makes most of what you say about the problem, an attack on or to them and not an address to the problem.
Thus they take defensive and rebellious action to protect what they deem part and piece of themselves. Once that course of action is option, you are considered nothing less than a threat to their survival. You are harm and trouble come their way. You will become the enemy.
Try having a sensible conversation with someone that believes you are their enemy.
It’s a problem.
©2014 Cornelious “See” Flowers