If YOU do not factor in (or realize) what has been deciding YOUR fate(s) thus far YOU will eliminate YOUR chance of being or becoming a or the deciding factor in YOUR destiny going forward; It may hurt to realize that until this point YOU have been controlled by a force or familiarity outside or aside of YOURSELF but taking in that information and taking control by taking on the situation(s) will give YOU the right and reason to get back on track and in control, NOW!
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