What “hurts” YOU will not always harm YOU and nor will what harms YOU always “hurt”.
Living to and by the “rules” or “regulars” of life will sometimes distort YOUR perspectives and destroy YOUR potential because of YOUR dependence on the “idea” or “impression” that life or its lessons inevitably teach; LIVE for YOURSELF in order to decide for YOURSELF what is good, bad, right, wrong, or “best” for YOU, for YOURSELF!
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