There are some people beneficially connected to the hurt you.

Those people are not going to easily acknowledge, accept, or appreciate your healing process, your healing requirements, or the results of you healing.

You being healed doesn’t serve their best interest. You being healed won’t allow them to manipulate or mishandle you as they have. You being healed will disrupt their ability to take advantage of you.

You being healed will force them to recognize, receive, and respect you according to what you require. That’s not what they are used to. That’s not what they expect of you.

The hurt, miserable, dysfunctional, and depressed you has a fanbase too. There are a bunch of people that are rooting for you to stay in the darkness. There are a bunch of people that will cheer on your anger, your frustration, your erratic and immature, messy, drama-fueled and filled self. There are a bunch of people that will support you tolerating, maintaining, and going back to what is not good for you.

And when YOU decide to say, go, do, and BE different, those people that rely or have relied on the hurt you will resist your change. They’ll fight your process. They’ll deny your progress. They’ll do everything within their power to get you back into their comfort zone. Back into that old place. Back into what it used to be.

But you’re not there anymore.

You don’t have to be there anymore.

And you shouldn’t be there anymore.

You’re not the hurt you anymore.

You’re healed.

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